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Conscience
– understanding right and wrong
There are some things in life about which there
is no doubt e.g. theft or the unlawful taking of life. Many people,
however, think that they can make up their own mind about what is
right and wrong. Their words might be “my conscience is clear,
so I am going to do it”.
The honest and sincere person is the one who is
always trying to answer the question “Am I making the right
decision?” Many would say, “If he thinks it’s
right, then it is right for him” or “if she is sincere
it is not for anyone else to question her decision”. Hence
the question, do we have the right to judge? Only God can judge
but there is nothing disrespectful in wondering about the rightness
or wrongness of the decision another person has reached.
Sometimes people
think about the Catholic vision of morality as if it were concerned
with condemning and denouncing people. This is a distortion of the
truth. It is not a matter of condemning people but of clarifying
the issues in particular kinds of decisions. Very often people convince
themselves that they are right in what they are doing because “everybody
is doing it”. In other words, I thought this was wrong, but
since everyone else is doing it, it can’t be that bad.
We must do what
we sincerely believe to be right but how we came to that sincere
belief may be very questionable. Sincerity is a serious , ongoing
task. An opinion expressed by a person we like and admire may be
treated with respect and approval, whereas the very same view expressed
by someone we dislike may be dismissed. Sometimes we can be very
fickle in moral decisions! We must take time to inform our conscience,
seek truthful, dependable knowledge. We would pay no attention to
someone who tried to teach us that two and two make five.
Conscience
is not merely someone whispering in my ear, it is not just a feeling
or an instinct. It is my judgement of what is the best thing to
do in a particular situation. The voice of conscience does express
an important insight. In the deepest recesses of every human being
God is present. There, in their own hearts, people decide their
own destiny in the sight of God (Vatican II, Gaudium et Spes). In
deciding our destiny we are responding to or rejecting God. We live
in an age when it is not easy to hear the voice of God and sometimes,
when it suits, we close our ears completely - ears that do not hear,
eyes that do not see!
When looking at the Church and examining its teachings there is
a tendency to see its moral vision and its ideals not as helpful
advice but as restrictive regulations. How many people, one wonders,
at the back of their minds, think something like , "Isn't it well
for people who are not Catholic, they don't have to worry about
all these rules?" There is something puzzling about such an attitude.
If the people think that what the Church says about these matters
is false why does it concern them at all? If they think it is true,
surely they cannot think it is better not to know the truth! The
problem is that anyone who thinks it is all about rules misses the
point. What comes first is God's love and our response to it; in
second place comes the Commandments. It is important to remember
that the Pope and the Bishops are merely handing on the teaching
of Jesus Christ, who gave them the responsibility to teach the community
in his name. What kind of person would want to reject the teaching
of Christ?
When a person has to make a judgement on a serious matter,
there should be a period of reflection, weigh up the pros and the
cons, seek more information, have a clear mind on the matter. Pray
for guidance and enlightenment. Think about the effect your decision
will have on others, and ultimately, on yourself. Shy away from
the notion "my conscience is clear, I can do what I like!"
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